A Therapy Center for Autistic Girls & Women
She Rocks the Spectrum
My Healing Toolkit
Across this journey you've gathered things that help - ways to ground when you're triggered, to soothe yourself, to hold a boundary, to feel less alone. This worksheet collects your best ones into a single toolkit you can return to, especially on the hard days that still come. Because healing isn't a straight line, and the waves do still return.
Having your tools in one place helps on the hard days: When a wave hits, it's hard to remember what helps. A written toolkit means you don't have to remember - you just open it and reach for something.
When I'm triggered or flooded
What actually helps me ground and get through:
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When I'm hurting
What comforts me, and who I reach for:
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What keeps me steady day to day
My daily anchors and practices:
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Truths to remember
A few things to hold onto when the doubt creeps back.
Truths I want to remember (I'm not crazy, it wasn't my fault, I'm not alone, this won't always feel this raw):
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These tools are yours now: Keep this somewhere you can find it on a hard day - your phone, your journal, your mirror. You built these tools through real pain and real work. They belong to you, and they'll be there when you need them.
Go deeper
Ready for more? These lessons pick up where this worksheet leaves off.
- Your Path Forward: You Don't Heal Alone, from Healing After Betrayal. The capstone of Healing After Betrayal: integrate your journey.
- Riding the Waves: Triggers & Emotional Regulation, from Healing After Betrayal. Betrayal triggers fling you into panic or numbness, and intrusive thoughts are normal.
- Boundaries That Keep You Safe (the WISE formula), from Healing After Betrayal. After betrayal, a boundary is a fence that keeps you safe - not control or punishment.
